SELF- REJECTION: 3 STEPS TO HANDLE SELF-REJECTION
1) Identify the feelings of Self-Rejection (deep loneliness, severe hurt, fear, worry, anger, anxiety, shame, etc..). This is GOD’s warning system that HE has given us to alert us to when we are headed in the wrong direction, opposite feelings from the Fruits of the Spirit, love, peace, joy, etc (Gal 5:16-25).
2) REJECT THE FEELINGS!
3) Self-examine and Identify what you are believing i.e. I’m not going to be accepted, I’m not good enough, nobody cares or loves me… and Replace with TRUTH: I AM Accepted, Secure and Significant!
I AM ACCEPTED...
John 1:12 I am God's child.
John 15:15 As a disciple, I am a friend of Jesus Christ.
Romans 5:1 I have been justified (declared righteous).
1 Corinthians 6:17 I am united with the Lord, and I am one with Him in spirit.
1 Corinthians 6:19-20 I have been bought with a price and I belong to God.
1 Corinthians 12:27 I am a member of Christ's body.
Ephesians 1:3-8 I have been chosen by God and adopted as His child.
Colossians 1:13-14 I have been redeemed and forgiven of all my sins.
Colossians 2:9-10 I am complete in Christ.
Hebrews 4:14-16 I have direct access to the throne of grace through Jesus Christ.
I AM SECURE...
Romans 8:1-2 I am free from condemnation.
Romans 8:28 I am assured that God works for my good in all circumstances.
Romans 8:31-39 I am free from any condemnation brought against me and I cannot be
separated from the love of God.
2 Corinthians 1:21-22 I have been established, anointed and sealed by God.
Colossians 3:1-4 I am hidden with Christ in God.
Philippians 1:6 I am confident that God will complete the good work He started in me.
Philippians 3:20 I am a citizen of heaven.
2 Timothy 1:7 I have not been given a spirit of fear but of power, love and a sound mind.
1 John 5:18 I am born of God and the evil one cannot touch me.
I AM SIGNIFICANT...
John 15:5 I am a branch of Jesus Christ, the true vine, and a channel of His life.
John 15:16 I have been chosen and appointed to bear fruit.
1 Corinthians 3:16 I am God's temple.
2 Corinthians 5:17-21 I am a minister of reconciliation for God.
Ephesians 2:6 I am seated with Jesus Christ in the heavenly realm.
Ephesians 2:10 I am God's workmanship.
Ephesians 3:12 I may approach God with freedom and confidence.
Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me.
Sanctification Building:
Trust in GOD Alone – not man or self: Prov 3:5-6
Humble Surrender: 1 Pet 5:6-11
Dependence on GOD alone: 2 Cor 1: 8-9